If this dating site doesn't even care…
If this dating site doesn't even care that they have a 1.2 review rating, almost the lowest possible rating of any thing ever on here, what chance do you have of even swaying them a little bit or getting anything close to support? They have changed a few things recently, and that only makes them terrible. And they are terrible. They skew towards women which is is common but in doing so they basically ensure that if you're on that site, you're going to stay single and stay on that site. Until you realize that it has nothing to offer you, and face the reality that without this website, you have even that chance of a snowflake in hell no longer there. They're selling you hope. Not hope that you'll find somebody, hope that they might change and become a respectable reputable site someday and actually help you find somebody, because everyone knows that these people are the most charitable jackals in the third ring of hell. Incidentally the most charitable ring of hell.
I recently matched with somebody and for the first time it was somebody in my town. They looked interesting and I would like to know who they are but I couldn't see their name before they disappeared as soon as I click their name. I contacted support and support said that they are aware of the problem. That's all. There's a problem. They are aware of it. And tough. Sorry about losing the one person that you've been on this site looking for for three or four years, and that even though we probably could look it up, we're not going to. In fact you're not even going to talk to you human being but to a machine that is instructed to do nothing to help you even if they could. So that's one thing. One thing that actually happened to me. Just a few moments ago I got a like and I went to go check it out. They weren't for me but, next to them was this little note that said, expand your preferences and see the other two people that are into you as well! It didn't say what preferences. So I don't know what the hell they're talking about. So I expanded them all. And at the end of it all those two people weren't even there anymore apparently. So were they lying? The answer is yes. They are lying. That's what they do. They said they had a website that was there to help you find somebody to date. And maybe there was one maybe there wasn't. They lied about something. Whether it was that I had to change my preferences, or whether there were two people who liked me then I couldn't see, or any other number of things but, the fact the matter is that they've already vetted their own site, and the only real reason you are there is to pay them money. That's what it's down to. And if they have to lie about it, not only can they but they definitely will. And they're getting away with it. And they will continue to get away with it. So, bear that in mind. And try not to patronize them because they're not nice people. They might hire some nice people but I'm sure those people are rather sad about the fact that they work for this place. As far as soulmates or ideal mate situations go you have a better chance of falling over your soulmate the next time you walk out of your front door. If there was a chance that they could set you up with one, they would make sure by all means that you could not and therefore leave the site. It's just something for you to figure out and if you read this, just know that's the way it is. Sorry about that and if sorry that you probably weren't aware of this either. I hope they change but honestly, what real motivation do they have?